Today marks the one-year anniversary of the passing of my beloved father. He actually passed on Feb 29th of last year but since it was during Leap Year, today is the anniversary.
My mother, brother and I went to Arlington National Cemetery this morning to pay my respects to my father, who is interred there at the columbarium. The ANC is a special place and we are honored that my father is interred there.
We paid our respects to my father — also, my mom left a piece of one of his favorite candies on the marker. 🙂 We then walked over to where my Uncle Arthur, my father’s older brother, is interred to pay respects to him, too.
My father and Uncle Art are two of my idols and role models. I loved Uncle Art dearly, too, and I’m honored to have my middle name from him (my full name is James Arthur Lynn). So, it’s really special to us that that they are interred near each other.
I’ve done by best to visit my father at ANC during every special day over the past year, including Father’s Day, his birthday, my parents anniversary, Thanksgiving and Christmas. I like to go there and have a nice chat with him – similar to what I do every day in my morning prayer.
We continue to be comforted with the thoughts that my father lived a long, full life; is reunited with his parents and brothers; and is no longer suffering from Alzheimer’s.
We celebrated my mother’s birthday this past Friday night — and, it’s great that she’s surrounded by so many wonderful and warm friends at the Jefferson, where my parents moved in 2004.
Dad — although you weren’t the most computer-literate and you weren’t too internet-savvy, if you’re reading this blog from up above, please know that I love you and miss you dearly. And, please note that I’m doing my best to do everything you taught me, including focusing on family and friends, teaching and helping others, working hard, keeping a strong level of integrity and treating everyone fairly and with respect.
Your son,
Jimmy
March 1, 2009 at 6:31 pm
Beautifully said Jimmy as you know I lost my father a few years ago and miss his laughter, wisdom and insight. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
DC
March 1, 2009 at 10:00 pm
Well said Judge!
March 2, 2009 at 1:54 am
Well said Jimmy..
March 2, 2009 at 12:05 pm
Judge:
Thanks for this. We just passed the 3rd anniversay of Big Syd’s passing and he’s been on my mind a lot. Your words about your dad helped me remember mine, one more time.
David
March 2, 2009 at 12:54 pm
Jimmy- Your words were written so beautifully. Your father is looking down at you so proud at all you have done. What a wonderful role model he was for you and now what a wonderful role model you are for others. Thank you for making me think of my dad, today, too. love you- Kathleen
March 3, 2009 at 6:06 pm
You have become a member of the club of which noone wants to belong. No matter what or where life may take you, you will always wish your Dad (or my Mom in my case) was able to experience it with you. whenever Dottie and I go to a wedding we always think “Mom” will never see our kids get married. Or when something good happens to me, I wish I could call and tell Buppy about it. God is good however and holds me close as I try my best to care for Dad as you do your sweet mom.
March 8, 2009 at 1:57 pm
Well said Jimmy – I feel fortunate to have grown up knowing your dad as well as the rest of your family. I’m sure he was very proud to see the person you grew up to become – in this way you honor him every day.
March 8, 2009 at 4:39 pm
Jimmy,
Your posting is very touching and heartfelt. Thanks for sharing. I think of your father and mother each time I walk down the hall at the Jefferson.
March 8, 2009 at 7:58 pm
Judge,
Very nice. From the heart I know and one can tell by reading your words.
We know your father was aware of the person you were and would continue to be. That person has always been you; as it is from your parents that it originated and you have not strayed.
I know I am proud to have you as a friend.
M. Coke